You’ve been performing for years, and it doesn’t feel the same anymore.

Something needs to happen

I offer support with stress and burnout, grief and loss, and the career and leadership issues that arise when things have shifted.

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You’ve been performing for years, and it doesn’t feel the same anymore.

Something needs to happen

I offer support with stress and burnout, grief and loss, and the career and leadership issues that arise when things have shifted.

For some, it shows up as a tiredness that just won't lift. Others graft and deliver, without it ever quite paying off. Maybe you've spent years adapting to how others lead or work, until you no longer know what actually works for you. And often it comes down to something feeling wrong, without being able to put your finger on why.

What I tend to see is that it's all connected. And that the strategy that's worked for ten years - push on and deliver - is exactly the one that's stopped working.

I'm Mette Hvied Lauesen, a certified coach and specialist in stress, grief and career identity, and I work in a structured way with what lies beneath the surface - who you are, what you actually need, and why it's become so hard to tell.

That's the path I guide you through - not by telling you what to do, but by helping you explore what no one else has asked yet.

Read about my background and methodologies

I'm Mette Hvied Lauesen, a certified coach and specialist in stress, grief and career identity. I take a structured approach, using evidence-based tools where appropriate – and focusing on what lies beneath the surface: who you are, what you actually need, and why it has become so difficult to tune into your inner self. I have some personal experience of this myself – I suffered a couple of burn-outs due to stress after years as a communications advisor, because I’d been adapting for so long that I’d lost touch with myself.

That’s the journey I’ll guide you through – not by telling you what to do, but by helping you explore the questions no one else has asked yet.

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Career and identity

Some people are certain that their career needs to change. Others simply know that something feels wrong, without being able to put their finger on exactly what it is.

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Leadership

Is it your own leadership style – or one you’ve borrowed from someone whose leadership style was different from yours? Or are you still developing your own style?

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Grief and loss

Grief isn’t just something associated with death. It can also be a career, an identity or a version of yourself that you’re in the process of letting go of. And all losses left unprocessed can have a lasting impact.

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Burnout and stress

Burnout is rarely the problem itself. It is often the result of a pattern that has been going on for years and has been draining you.

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Introvert at work

If you’re an introvert and have spent years trying to fit in with extroverted norms, you might no longer know what suits you best – or what you can do about it. We’ll figure that out.

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Chemistry call

Are you ready to find out how your everyday life could be made better?

The consultation is free and there’s no obligation. It’s not therapy and it’s not a sales pitch – but a calm, professional space where we look at your situation and consider what, realistically, can help you move forward.

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What others have said

Thank you

First and foremost, I’d like to say a huge thank you for supporting me through one of the darkest chapters of my life! I realise this is your job, but quality comes in many forms, and I’ve found the conversations you have to be top-notch and hugely enriching. There’s both a challenging and a supportive element to your conversations, and you manage to balance and use both exactly where they make the biggest difference.

HENRIK M. NIELSEN

I’ve got better control over my life

I’ve really enjoyed your coaching, and it’s helped me move forward. I now feel I’ve got a bit more control over my life and more energy. You’ve asked the right questions, which steered my train of thought in the right direction. So you deserve a big thank you for that.

WOMAN 32

Was given the necessary tools

Leadership coaching with Mette gave me some essential tools and skills to become a better leader, and it also helped me to reflect on the sort of leader I want to become. I am grateful for the time and opportunity I was given to learn from such an experienced coach.

MALE PROFESSOR

I've learned that stifling my integrity is the same as stifling myself.

I’ve learnt to accept my weaknesses as my strengths – however daft that may sound. The fact that I’m empathetic and sensitive is precisely what makes me good at my job. It’s liberating!

I’ve learnt that ‘perfect’ mustn’t stand in the way of ‘better’ or ‘pragmatic’, and that I’ll run out of steam in the pursuit of flawlessness. I’ve learnt that stifling my integrity is tantamount to stifling myself. I’ve learnt that there’s no point in fighting against myself on the very issues that define me as a human being. It’s only a path to unhappiness.

I’ve learnt a great deal working with you, Mette.

MIDDLE MANAGER

I can breathe freely now

I was surprised by just how much of a change the process brought about in me. I’ve felt a great sense of relief and joy, and the feeling of being able to breathe freely. I’ve realised just how much energy I’ve been tying up in grief, anger and negative thoughts, and how much effort I’ve spent avoiding facing them head-on and dealing with them. I’ll be able to use the techniques I’ve learnt in this regard going forward.

FEMALE PROFESSIONAL

Got my thinking straight

In difficult situations, I still find myself thinking, ‘What would Mette ask me now?’, because her coaching helped me get my thoughts in order and stay on track towards my goal.

FEMALE ASSISTANT PROFESSOR

I’d definitely work with Mette again

Mette and I have been working on my professional development, specifically on exploring some obstacles and discovering my true purpose. I found Mette to be an exceptionally good listener, who is very skilled at reading between the lines and asking exactly the right questions to keep the conversation flowing and bring out what’s important. Mette is always punctual, respectful and possesses a great deal of compassion and empathy, and she will tailor your programme to your specific needs.

FEMALE MIDDLE MANAGER

I stood up for myself

BURNT OUT WOMAN

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Jeg hjælper de karriereforvirrede, de stressramte, de nye ledere, de introverte og de sorgramte.

Derudover laver jeg workshops og online kurser inden for mental sundhed.

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